Fofa is the definition of ugly.
You're so fofa today! Why you such fofa today?
A form of “FWB”. The type of partnership where you stay in the lane best suited for “Fucking Off and Fucking Around”. You spend what limited time you have to create fun memories and have a good night out (or in); hence the “Fucking Off”. When it’s time to head out, you “Fuck Around” and have great sex (leaving on friendly terms)...until you hang out again. A form of “escaping” your everyday life with a friend who you have a bond with and mutual respect.
Stranger: Are you guys dating?
Me: Naw...but that’s my FOFA.
Stranger: Oh, gotcha. So tonight he’s yours...but I can slip him my number on the sly. No hard feelings?
Me: For sure. You got this! 😉🤣