shand

the gay sexual act of shoving sand in another man's asscrack and/or anus

"I went to the beach with my boyfriend yesterday and shanded him super hard."

"On his profile he said he was into shanding, but I've never done it before!"

"Oh yeah, I'm gonna shand you so hard, baby"

Shand

To Shand is to hug/cuddle with someone or something

Person one: look at Cameron, he's shanding with his girlfriend

Shande

The most artistic bitchiest bitch you'll ever meet. You'll often find them with your mom

Girl: Wow he's such a bitch
Other girl: yeah! That's shande