n. Pseudophilosophical guff memetically spread by the tumblr blog "The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows". No academic grounding whatsoever, can be figured out through common sense.
I just had a sonder.
A what? Stop talking shit!
The universal primal diversions of that which abolishes the hilt of the sword of anger unleashinf forth from its wings the waves of time.
Wow did you see mr.kolka do the sonder. I just can't explain it , man.
The definition of sonder means that you are a 19 year old female that is still a virgin.
My name is tallulah and I’m a sonder
A complex state of lucidity and being, more complex than the already existing word "Sonder". To be bewildered by seemingly mundane things, to be the observer of your own reality while understanding and consciously aware of just how complex other people's lives really are. Sonderance may also mean; to be in a trance like meditative state of unity and deeper connection to the universe surrounding you or I. Think "Ego Death" in a way.
There's Sonderance in this...the way the world works, the way life just goes, it's beautiful, isn't it? It's complex and confusing, but we all come from the same place at the end of the day.
The realization that everyone else is living their own life, each being as rich, complex, and complicated as your own.
Sonder is such a crazy thing to think about.
(n.) The realization to that each passerby has a life as complex, vivid, and unique as your own.
“I felt the sonder when I heard all these people tell me their stories.”