1. A more retarded way to say "your mom is gay"
Friend 1: your mom have the big gay
Friend 2: no u
When your balls are so massive, you just can't help but be gay and show them to the homies.
"Bro, you gotta see my Big gay balls".
it's when an autistic person tries to roast you and it fails miserably and after this happens a slap is very much needed
autistic person: "yo momma is have big gay"
me: *slaps him*
What you say your friends have when they are being autistic.
The definition, "Big Gay" is commonly used by 11-12 year old children who are in middle school and want to become a "Cool Kid" by swearing. They don't swear around their parents because apparently they don't want to get into trouble.
If you are even insulted by a middle schooler, Please, Refrain from that .357 and look on the bright side, He's just a kid, Nothing more.
"Wow this hacker is being a big gay right now, Im-a report him!"
your big gay
"damm that girl ella, shes fucking gay."
"youre right. shes big gay"