Harmful term for the lgbtq+ community that is used to signify that a person that identifies as gay or lesbian had never had sex with the other gender.
The term is considered harmful by members of the community for some of the following reasons (list not exclusive):
It shames people that were not identifying with that one term from the beginning on, making them feel less.
It pushes the stereotype of having to know you were gay or lesbian since forever, not allowing people to have space in order to experiment with their sexuality.
It creates this "elite" of people that were always aware they were gay/lesbian.
It takes away from experiences that closeted and scared lgbtq+ people had, trying to fit in by being with the opposite sex.
"Sarah has never been with a man, has she?"
"Yeah, she's a Golden Gay/Lesbian."
Much like the "Oreo," which is a woman with two black men; a Golden Oreo is a woman with two Asian men.
She was in a Golden Oreo with two Chinamen yesterday.
The pussy has golden flaps of joy
Hey you got golden flaps can eat that pussy
When two men with a pissing fetish go dogging in a BT phonebox.
"Oh mate this phonebox smells awful!"
"yeah some dutty cretin has had a golden phonebox"
A girl that manages to get things done. What you got a light shining out under there???
Damn, that girl MUST have a golden who ha!
The act of performing homosexual oral sex on two men
Did you hear about oly? He gave two guys a golden musket at the party last night
Your golden person isn’t any regular person,They are the happiness of fresh young love unfolding in all its marvelous glory. The happiness a heart can always see. It’s the kind of color that’s exciting and loud, without being angry or overwhelming. Your gold is like feeling the warm sunshine on your skin. It tastes like putting a whole lemon in your mouth; your lips puckering up, eyes clenched, a sharp taste on your tongue, giving you goosebumps all over your arms. It’s the feeling of running your hand over wild sunflowers, the petals soft, yet sturdy. It sounds like birds chirping early in the morning, singing their happy tunes. It’s the music of bees buzzing plant to plant, on a warm afternoon, spreading life. Yellow is happy & peaceful. It’s a type of color that says “all is right with the world & I am content with life”.
“Every time I see them I can feel warmth spread through my chest”
“You’ve met your golden person”