When one over-indulges with alcohol and drugs at home alone. Generally a combination of three drugs is required for a true self bender.
Also known by the slang form "spender"
I had a real self bender last night.
I had a real spender last night.
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Finding a hookup using the Tinder app that looks attractive on there profile picture and inviting them over, only to find out that they are less than appealing (and STILL hooking up with them).
"Dude I got in such a Tinder-bender last night. I found this smoking hot chick on Tinder and invited her over. When she got there, she looked like she fell from and ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.... and I STILL hit it."
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A game clan that revoves around Bender
Admin1: wanna go to Disciples of Bender site?
Player: okay!
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A fender bender is simply when a guy gets a 10 to 15 foot running start to rail a girl in the back door while she is bending over; Making an obvious reference to the car accident when one vehicle crashes into the ass end of the vehicle in front of it.
Hank: "Whoa, why is Brenda walking like a duck?"
Dave: "I remember hearing Bret saying something about giving her a fender bender last night."
Hank: "OUCH!"
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1. The act of bending someones dong.
2. One who enjoys bending the male penis. Usually done with the mouth.
Do you think Robbies gay? Ya he's a total dong bender.
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A person who sees gender as a sociocultural construction and not something innate. Because genders are roles we play, and not something inherant, gender is something that can be turned on or off, tuned in or out and will. Because of this, someone who bends gender might wear baggy pants and pee standing one day, and crack out heels and a corset the next. People can bend gender in many ways and contexts, and because of this, people who are of any gender or sexual orientation can be gender-benders.
Sometimes, I feel sexy in a slinky dress and lipstick. Sometimes I feel handsome in a button down and tie. Sometimes I wear ties with skirts, corsets and cufflinks. I am a gender-bender, and I can bend gender norms to fit my conception of who I am.
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A long period of time to which you are intoxicated with mdma (molly)
Guy A: "yo did you hear sarah went on a 4 day molly bender!"
Guy B: " NO WAY! how is she not dead yet?"
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