Making a human being of any race, feel ashamed, guilty, or at fault; for something that happened in the world, in which they have no control over.
After being pulled over for running a red light, I was let off with a warning. Later at work I told this story to my coworker. ( I am white and she is mixed) She immediately took my story, and made it all about her. She spent 10 minutes race shaming me, claiming it was only due to my race that I was let off with a warning. While if the tables were turned, she wouldโve had to fear for her life from the police officer.
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n. the course walked home after a night of boozing and fucking. one usually wears either the clothes they went out in (eg. short skirt and heels) or the clothing of the person they slept with (eg.a large white t-shirt)the morning after and everyone notices they have the "I was fucked up last night" look and am now walking home from the guy-I- fucked's house.
"I don't remember what his face looked like and I had to do the walk of shame."
"I don't remember if the sex was good enough for the walk of shame."
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The point at which it's too late to ask for someone's name because you spent so much time around them that you should already know it.
I have total name shame. I've been working for a month with this guy and still don't know his name.
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A phenomenon that occurs when one is not only ashamed of something, but *ashamed* that one is ashamed, resulting in an endless decrease in self-confidence, and an exponential increase in self-loathing.
Not only do I hate that I'm gay, but I hate that I hate that I'm gay! I'm caught in a fucking shame spiral!
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Like "walk of shame," term refers to college students who use university affiliated call-a-ride services to return home after sleeping with someone and spending the night in their dorm room. Seen as a convenient attempt to avoid embarrassment associated with the "walk of shame". Term thought to have originated from University of Maryland, College Park, where evening transportation services are innundated with calls from hung-over freshmen who do not want to be seen walking home.
Sally: I got a Nite Ride home from Johnny's frat house this morning.
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Donation shaming is the act of shaming a person's donation calling it "small" compared to their own net-worth in belief they should donate larger amounts.
Person 1: Wow billionaire (name here) only donated 999 million but they are worth a trillion!
Person 2: wow, that's donation shaming bro
Diva-Shaming is the practice of criticizing people, especially women and girls, who are perceived to violate expectations of behavior and appearance regarding issues related to their personality and style. The term is used to reclaim the word diva and empower women and girls to have and embrace their individual identity.
Examples of diva-shaming include being criticized or outcasted for: over dressing, being different, pampering themselves, being confident, smelling good, looking good, wearing makeup, being curvy, standing out, wearing false lashes, wearing acrylic nails, wearing sunglasses indoors, wearing high heels, having a lot of clothes, being particular, having preferences, over packing, wearing wigs, frequently changing hair styles, etc
Common Statements that can be offensive to divas: โYour doing too much.โ, โYour so extra.โ, โKeep it simple.โ, โWhy are you so dressed up?โ, โYou have too many clothes.โ, โHow do you wipe your butt with those long nails?โ, โYour hair is so long, does it ever fall in the toilet?โ, โHow do you walk in those heel? They are so unhealthy.โ โDo you ever wear your real hair?โ
Diva-Shamer: โOmg girl we are just going to the grocery store. Why are you so dressed up?
Diva: โSis, stop with the diva-shaming. That energy is killing the vibes.โ