not a gaslighter

Someone who attempts to gaslight someone by gaslighting them into believing that you're gaslighting them. They also have a tendency to have a sleep schedule that should be considered illegal.

I was gaslit into believing not a gaslighter was a gaslighter

Minnesota gaslighting

The act of convincing or attempting to convince someone that your personality and the current local temperature are both warmer than they actually are.

"My friends were Minnesota gaslighting me when they told me I wouldn't need a sweater but I later found out they just thought it was ugly and didn't want to be seen with me wearing it."