Side

A person who doesn’t enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation, etc).

Willow: So, are you a top or a bottom?

Kerri: Actually, I’m just a side.

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side

A gay man who enjoys foreplay, such as kissing, cuddling, manual stimulation, fellatio, and analingus, but not actual sex.

As with anything, discuss any risks and comfort levels with any potential partner(s) prior to having sex. Have real conversations. It’s okay to like what you like and not like what you don’t, as long as you don’t mislead anyone.

“Are you a top, a bottom, or vers?
“I’m more of a side.”

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on the side

Having an extra sex partner. Having sex with a friend as in friend with benefits while in a relationship with someone else.

I like fucking him on the side, just like I like ordering my salad dressing on the side.

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on-the-side

a) someone's sidekick

b) an offensive term for someone's mistress or lover

If you want an on-the-side definition b), don't be in a classical ltr; look for an open relationship instead.

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on the side

Having a sexual relationship with a person outside of one's primary, emotional relationship.

See, mistress.

"Hey man, I heard you were getting a little action on the side! Did you nail her?"

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on-the-side

a) humorous, someone's sidekick

b) (very offensive): someone's mistress or lover.

I'd rather have an on-the-side definition a) than an on-the-side definition b)

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The Side

A place in a parallel universe where everyone's keys eventually end up

"Honey, where's my keys?"
"On the side"

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