The misguided belief that it is possible to love someone regardless of what they might do or say. This is of course impossible without the accompanying sense resentment, as can be experienced in family life.
I love her unconditionally, however i do also have this awful feeling in the pit of my stomach every time i tell her, ah well, that's unconditional love for you
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How I feel about my Mama
(From Shlomo)
I love you mama good night. Unconditional love
When you like someone and no matter how much you hear or they tell you about themselves, you like them that it's close to love but not just yet.
I have Unconditional like for you
You may have my unconditional love, on one condition.
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first of all: 'unconditional Love' is absolutely redundant - Love is always always always absolutely unconditionalโฆ
second: love is not a verb, which is generally how it is used... Love never has an 'object' as in 'I love you', I love this, I love that, etc ad infinitum... as soon as you use 'love' as a verb you obviously introduce myriad conditions that are hanging right beneath your nose - which are immediately denied... 'love' used a verb is nothing more than 'conditional love', the supreme oxymoron... STOP USING LOVE AS A VERB TO HEIGHTEN YOUR AWARENESS AND SENSITIVITY TO ITS TRUE MEANING...
(unconditional) Love is utterly and absolutely BLIND... Love Sees only One - not your mother, father, lover, daughter, son, sister, brother, gender, religion, country, race, class / caste, beauty, car, home, bank account, etc etc etc ad infinitum...
Love, like Truth, is an ABSOLUTE (which is why i capitalize it) without degrees, levels, stages conditions, reasons, need, etc etc etc... Love is simply Oneness - the absolute ABSENCE of any and all DISTINCTIONS and SEPARATION...
Love is a rarefied State of God Consciousness, or as Yeshua hinted - "God is Love"...
we are utterly immersed in Orwellian DoubleThink / DoubleSpeak - so we have been brain-washed into believing ATTACHMENT IS LOVE, CONDITIONAL LOVE (an oxymoron) IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, DENIAL IS TRUTH...
why is it a father would be investigated by Child Protection Services if he said he was โIN loveโ with his daughter?
unconditional Love is BLIND... when the sense of distinction and separation is utterly and absolutely absent, you may call it Love - everything else is simply varying degrees of attachment (or what some call affection - i.e. being affected by)...
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so-called 'christians' hilariously point to John 3:16 as 'proof' of their God's 'UNCONDITIONAL love' - "For God so 'loved' the world, that he gave his only begotten 'son' - THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH IN HIM..." stop right there - DOES ANYONE SEE THE CONDITION? i capitalized it for the slow ones... so this so-called 'loving' 'god' apparently won't terrorize you for Eternity if you believe that having his 'son' maniacally crucified somehow PROVES his 'unconditional love' for you (as long as you BELIEVE the fairy tale)... you have to truly be INSANE to believe such a convoluted absurdity...
to be 'IN Love' is a contradiction... One cannot be IN Oneness - One can only BE Love / BE Oneness... to 'be IN the ocean' (you + ocean = SEPARATION) is vastly different than 'Being the Ocean (only Ocean = Oneness)...
the incessant cultural brain-washing tells us that 'being IN love' is actually a notch above the normalized 'love', and is directed at one special person you are having sex with - and hence this extreme attachment you are in fact creating, actually has the potential to MAKE LOVE... if that doesn't make you laugh until it hurts - you either have absolutely no sense of humor whatsoever or your ability to THINK CRITICALLY has been totally co-opted by patriarchy... sex is truly TRULY ANTITHETICAL to Love - and the sooner we understand that sex is the root cause of most of the insanity on Earth (overpopulation), the sooner Earth begins healing from the insanity of civilization...
unconditional Love is BLIND... when the sense of distinction and separation is absent, you may call it Love - everything else is simply varying degrees of attachment...
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When your homophobic family members say they love you no matter what, except they don't know yet that you're gay.
Person 1: "Don't worry dude, I'm sure they love you unconditionally, they're your family."
Person 2: "Yeah but it's Schrodinger's unconditional love, because they're homophobic, and they don't know yet that I'm gay."
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