A Pick-me American is someone who feels insecure or ashamed for being an American citizen and dunks on the US and fellow Americans to get validation from people in other countries. Some will make videos on social media, blanketing the whole US as a monolithic hellhole with no diversity in state, culture, or ethnicity. They harmfully project their personal experience like it's true everywhere in the States. This creates a false view of Americans abroad, even if it's skewed by Pick-me's self-hatred, causing prejudice or misunderstanding about Americans or the US. Pick-me's have a rose-colored lens when viewing the world vs. the US and tend to cherry-pick topics. They think culture (European)abroad is only authentic. Ignoring cultures like Appalachian, Cajun, Tejano, and indigenous people whose history is older than the founding of the US because it's not Eurocentric. Nothing validates them more than having Europeans agree with them while they bash other Americans. Some pick-me's try hard to show how un-American they are, but when they say something stupid or false and get called out, they say, "I'm just an American🤪" to save themselves.
Americans who want to travel or move abroad are fine. What's wrong is Americans who go abroad and say they're Canadians, bash fellow Americans, or apologize for being born in the US. The US and its people aren't perfect, but what you see online can be skewed to show the bad and wrong, ignoring the good aspects, of which there are many!
Pick-me American examples
Vanessa said calmly, " I don't know why the US always has to be different from the rest of the world. Unlike other Americans; I use metric, not imperial!"
Other Americans watching this pitiful display." Who is going to tell her that we actually use a mixed system like Canada and the UK and use Metric for things such as science, etc, and use US customary, not imperial."
An American Tiktoker trying to earn pity points"Stupid Americans, it's so horrible how they want to put hot sauce on a schnitzel they paid for!"
only to delete her post after getting called out by others.
A pick me Pearl is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval, will embarrass or throw women under the bus but in the process she is rejected from the demographic of men she is pandering to, due to the fact that she is to masculine/outspoken.
"she says all the right things for the type of man she wants, why isn't anyone picking her?"
"It's because she's a pick me pearl"
A mixture of a pick me and a brat; a very annoying person
My brother is a pick-me brat.
lillie ella. simply just lillie ella. also someone who tries to give all the boys chewing gum (also lillie ella)
lillie ella: oh my god boy 1 would you like a chewie
boy 1: yeah go on
girl 1: what the actual fuck. what a pick me girl
A girl who is viewed as someone who constantly wants attention from males or any type of the 678 genders. However they half of the time aren't a pick me, they are just viewed like that because of today's society. We tear down women who do nothing wrong, who might just be trying to "fit in" which they might be struggling to because of this terrible generation.
Summa: Look at Arianna, she's such a pick me girl omg. She wants attention like 24/7
Angela: I know right. She's such a bitch.
Arianna: breaking down mentally, because these are all lies. dont believe what others say about u.
“I hang with the boys all day because all other girls start drama, it’s not because I’m a pick me girl I’m just different” -allison