When a kid is well old enough to Stand and still breast feeds from his mother or another woman.
The 7 year old got of his bike and his mum breast feed him in the park, his a stander.
Someone who is insolent or doesn't do what they are told.
"Why didn't you go across the street like I asked? God, Goody you're such a pipe-stander."
Person who works at a bar/pub that has to listen to peoples nonsense.
Jill didn't instigate anything she's just an innocent bar stander