Balling or ballin' backwards is best defined as losing ground, wasting time and/or resources, failing to progress in life and instead decreasing in power and influence while thinking you are being wise and progressing.
ALSO Making poor decisions which ultimately place you in a position of losing the progress you've have made in life or love. Said losses may be financial, emotional, social, physical, mental, and more. The end result is that you are playing the Game of Life very badly and not moving forward to be greater later, but instead standing still while others move past you, or actually exhibiting behaviors and making choices that make you lose ground.
After they broke up, Sheila was doing well - went back o school, bot a better job and was planning to buy a house. But when Malik came begging she let him back into her life and now she has no education, got evicted, and he spent the money she'd saved on some wild scheme to "start a business." That girl is working so hard but seriously ballin' backwards!
Real Ballin: When your girl makes you wear a condom, so you heil Hitler with your dick while inside her so the condom breaks and the kids come out Nazis.
When you get home and you just want to get some real balling on
He was ballin negative after that Vegas trip.
When you wear a skirt without underpants, so your cock a balls are hanging free
Did you see that femboy over there? I think he's cock and ballin'
Exiting the parking lot in an opulent vehicle
Ballin off the lot with my homie on the regular dawg
When I balled off the lot - that’s stuntin’
Is when you put 2 finger's in the pussy and 1 in the ass.
I was finger banging that chick last night, I was Bowlin' Ballin' it baby.
The act of Bingling your Balls in someones face, Usually follows with the victim getting sturdy.
Last night my nigga got bingle balled outside the gas station. He been sturdy ever since. i.e: Bingle Ballin