It is basically dating without the entitlement. There is no pressure, yet at the same time, both non-daters refuse to flirt with others. Often a precursor to dating.
"I thought Alexa and Graham were dating."
"No, right now they are gonna non-date. After all, who needs all that pressure."
24π 8π
instead of an actual date, two people that only get together to smoke weed.
or
a way for guys to get girls high and to hook up with them.
Sarah: Joe called me like six times to get me to smoke with him
Kelly: you know he just wants to bang you right?
Sarah: he's such a weed dater!
24π 8π
Going on a date with three different couples.
Man 1:Hey Ben, do you and Michelle wanna go to dinner with Tom and Jerry and their girlfriends?
Man 2: Isn't that a triple date?
Man 1: YES!
Man 2: Okay then.
27π 9π
Something you offer when your too nice to go out on a singles date with someone
"Dude, I asked her out and she said she would rather go on a double date"
31π 11π
When a normally mundane activity (ie. food shopping or doing laundry) is given social significance when accompanied by a love\sexual interest. It can be a good way to fit semblance of a social life into a young urbanites packed schedule, or can be a way of breaking the ice.
I wanted to hang out with Mary, but I had to walk my neighboors dogs so i took her with me. It was a laundry date.
38π 15π
when you and the person you're texting both have to make a bowel movement at the same time, and you still text each other why pooping.
Amando: Ayy I gotta poop
Robert: WTF so do I
Amando: Lol. Go do it... it'll be like a poop date. No homo
12π 3π
βThe Grind Date is simply a slang way of saying working, being about your hustle, just trying to do your job. So you know, someone working really hard and maybe doing more than one job, have three jobs, itβs just a way of saying they are on their grind. They are on their hustle. They are just trying to make their ends meet and live. I think that we at De La Soul have come to see ourselves like that. We have never fit into what was the norm of rap, even when we were at the height of our career when we first came out. But even when trying to still put music out and make it what we want it to be its a lot of work, itβs a grind. So we symbolize where we are today and contribute to that word, itβs like itβs a βgrind dateβ"
"Grinding and working your best to meet a certain level of success that you donβt know what it is until you get there. The term is actually playing of the term βa blind dateβ, like knowing that you have a date with a woman, but not knowing what she looks like until you knock on that door and she opens it. So we are saying itβs like opportunities and the success we are trying to reach with our career, you really donβt know what it is or how to measure that success until itβs pretty much over and done until you meet that day that its over and you tally everything up.β
(Posednous - De La Soul)
I am working hard, having the Grind Date
Until I get the money to buy my left leg's skate
25π 9π