This is the real definition for a Sally Boy. It's the original definition used for a ship hand/steward on a ship.
I'm sorry everyone, sally boy was not originally meant to mean a homosexual or an effeminate male. The word "Sally" came from the word salay. Salay boy is a cabin boy, steward, ship hand, etc. Their job is to help maintain the ship and assist each other (if there's more than one aboard the ship), the sailors (and pirate sailors), officers, cooks, the captain, any co-captains, and the first mate (who is also a co-captain). They also assisted the passengers on the ships as well.
The dress style back then may have seemed effeminate due to the time period and dress style at that time (prior to current dress style used by sailors in the merchant marines and other garb with by sailors from other localities). These boys (adolescents)/men (unless they were new to the job as an adolescent) were treated as men and respected as men for their jobs (no offense to the women, we all know the superstitions back then; unless a woman tricked or was allowed to trick the sailors and Captain ;) and became a Salay Boy). They are very important individuals on the ship. It is a respected career/profession.
The derogatory term that is used today, is from a difference in dialects. It's the clothing that I'd assume is the reason for the term being used to wrongly discriminate against someone and to treat someone badly due to being different by societies norms.
The sally boy (salay boy) was called on to help find the first mate on the ship.
Pussy, Vagina, Wuss, someone who is afraid to say or do something.
Marty: I have a huge dick.
Lindsey: Prove it.
Marty: No, I don't wanna scare you.
Lindsey: Don't be a fuckin sally horse.
Bob is a Republican. Sally is a Democrat. Bob and Sally are still friends because they wan to kill the poor!
Don't be like Bob and Sally
A woman who is obsessed with sex.
"Man, that Tinder chick was a serious Sack Sally. Rode me like a post horse all night".
A great song on KAMA SUTRA by BILLY HARNER that brings you into the future.
OK, PETER you can take home SALLY SAYIN' SOMETHING as thanks for visiting ELON'S TESLA DEALER in the BALA CYNWYD area in MONTGOMERY COUNTY PA.
A male service member who prances around like a homosexual.
After Jeremy joined the military he started to act like a sergeant sally because he spent some much special time with other men.
A Sore Sally is someone who expects too much from the world thus creating a forever and eternal feeling of soreness because they never will achieve what they want to in life, making them an extra sore person.
Tracy was expecting free stuff for being a loyal customer, but when the manager told her to put stuff back because she didnt have enough money, it went bad and she turned into a sore sally for the rest of the night.