UK slang for a homosexual male, can be used as a replacement for faggot.
Joseph: "You know, Josh is a faggot"
Andrew: "Yeah, he's a right bender"
A horrible hockey player who sucks
Person 1: ew that kid is so bad at hockey
Person 2: yeah, what a bender
a hockey player who is absolutely terrible at hockey, and their ankles bend when they skate requiring them to rape their ankles.
eh johnny you see this kid he can’t even skate
(johnny) yeah buddy kids a bender
a homosexual male, who typically bends over other males, no matter their sexuality
oh fucking hell mate, its that bender again! remember last time when he bent you over?