A state of mind created by drug users, alcoholics and depressed people that keep them locked in a cycle of pain, remorse and self-pity. When you are hugging the cactus, you are purposefully holding onto past pain, regrets, resentment, blame and other issues that prevent you from moving forward in a positive manner. The goal of therapy and self-realization is to “let go” and “stop hugging the cactus.”
Robert Downey Jr once told a story of his past drug abuse and alcoholism days where Mel Gibson helped him by telling him to stop “hugging the cactus!” Robert stated this realization allowed him to let go of his past and move forward.
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basically, exactly what it is called. hugging a person while either you, or you and the other person is sweaty. its a good thing, considering most people consider sweat to be gross ( which I dont, unless its on a nasty, unhygenic person ) ..so if someone gives you a sweat hug, it means they like you, enough to get your sweat all over them. O.O yep.
Girl, all sweaty after dancing like a nut to a guy: SWEAT HUG! ( they proceed to hug...sweatily... )
a bunch of friends randomly sweaty: SWEAT HUUUG!!! **they all hug**
...see? very simple.
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they are stupid hugs that emo kids love to give and while hugging tell u there depressing life.
Dude ashley, your ex, tried to give me one of those Emo Hugs and treid telling me her depressing life.
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A good way to start feeling up a girl. like after dancing, you give the girl a hug and instead of putting your hands on her shoulders, you put them on her Ass cheeks. Most girls like this.
I just Grope hugged jenny after the spring fling dance.
Yo, tony, my homo freind gave me a Grope hug!!
I like getting grope hugs from girls!
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Hugging someone really tightly until they're unconscious.
I'm going to hug you just like a bear would, I'm giving you a bear hug.
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when you hug someone without using your arms
i sunshine hugged her like crazy
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A gentler way of saying hand job.
All she would do is a hand hug.
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