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Me: If an indian monkey is born in the United States....
Mommy: (irritated) yes.....
Me: Won't that make him a an ABCM? HAHHHAHAHAHA Im so funny mommy.
Mommy: Please stop talking.....
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A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth.
Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy. Additionally, many trans people use this label as a less restrictive version of T4T.
Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM
Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.
A term used by queer people on dating apps that means they will date "anyone but cisgender men." An ABCM is interested in cisgender women, trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people, but not men who were assigned male at birth. A less restrictive version of T4T.
Depending on the context, this can suggest that they believe transgender men are not real men (once a woman, always a woman), but many bi people hold this boundary only online and would be happy to date a cisgender man they met in person and felt safe with. Others are primarily concerned with reducing the risk of pregnancy.
Dating profile: 25 | Virgo | ABCM
Person 1: Would you date a girl who says she prefers ABCM?
Trans man: I wouldn't mind that, but I might feel dysphoric if she referred to herself as a lesbian while she was dating me.