Ben jus means a guy who is so awkward and goes on dates to discuss with girls as an objective
« Ben jus, how was the date ? »
« It was good, we discussed really well »
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a ben jus is known for its tendency to excessively DM female individuals. his behavior can be easily associated to the one of a beta male.
« Should I DM her now ? »
« No don’t, don’t be a ben jus »