pilgrim giver

To give with hidden expectations and stipulations, like the Pilgrims did years ago to the Native Americans.

"Do you remember when Thomas lent me his headphones? It turns out he fully expected me set him up with my sister! That guy's a total pilgrim giver."

Pilgrim Giver

Those who sweeten someone up with gifts just to around and mess up their whole life.

She's a pilgrim giver bro. She made me food and been messing up my life every since that night.