To trick someone who into having sex by getting them to be think the connection is something other than what it really is. Also called "deceptive rape", "rape by fraud", and " the 'consent & regret' game".
He Ponzi raped her for weeks by creating an illusion of love and closeness, and then dumped her without a care when he was bored with the sex. She was devastated and confused, trying to figure out what went wrong.