The reckless act of "Playing with Fire" as applied to a social or romantic context.
When Melinda asked to borrow her ex's wrench, knowing he would offer to come over and fix her pipes himself, she couldn't help but wonder if the text committed Social Arson.
A person who goes around starting drama. They enter a group blow things out of proportion and then leave it for you to sort out.
Creating havoc, drama and scenes in a group setting for the effect, with no resolution.
Social Arson Social Arsonist