Spite woman

Is the opposite of a spite man.

The boyfriend will opt more for the living together arrangement until he is ready to commit with the end result being marriage.

Darnell: Chance are you Cheri ever getting married?
Chance: I love her but I’m still not ready yet.
Darnell: Well your spite woman isn’t helping you.
Chance: You’re Cheri is the one I can’t live without.