A state of mental confusion and mood swings between feeling hopeless and miserable about a difficult situation (work, school, etc.) and fury about the same situation. In the depressed state, a person won't do anything about their situation, and just complain. They will also often blame themselves (for not being able to do anything about it).In the violent state, the person will be angry about what's happening, will often be physically violent and mentally irritable, and is likely to blame others (because they believe another person is the cause). These aren't completely different, only different ways a person with mental instability reacts to feelings of helplessness.
X: (crying) I have so much stress from work and I don't know what to do about it. I'm so useless. I can't do anything to change this.
Y: you're not worthless, it's just that you blame yourself for everything.
(3 minutes later)
X: (yelling) it's all my f***ing boss's fault. He gives too much work and the selfish ba****d doesn't give a s**t about his employees. I wanna kill that mutha f**ka.
Y: I'm sure it's not that bad. You need to calm down and stop being so |violent depressed|
X: don't you tell me to calm down. Shut the f**k up and leave me the hell alone or I'll beat the f***ing s**t out your a**.
Y: (leaves)
X: (slams the door behind person Y and then kicks a hole through the door)
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The kind of sex that is reserved between a woman and their sexually frustrated neighbor, both parties are vigorously and mercilessly going at it, however they're mid existential crisis at the though of what their life has come to, sat in a somewhat strange mans house, having your ass eaten whilst fearing the wrath of his obese wife breaking down the door.
Such sex involves acts to inflict major harm and discomfort upon each other, such as a foreskin tearing hand job, whilst her mother is in the kitchen, unaware of the task at hand (Pun intended).
Furthermore such an act is later ignored and they go back to awkwardly making compulsory conversation whence they see each other in public, till the time comes again. (Pun, yet again, intended).
"You see the way Catherina and Phil were looking at each other at the shop"?
" Yeah, they've been going at it"
"Phil's wife ain't gonna be impressed that he's been having violent depression sex with her*.