abusive joke

When someone says something rude but plays off as a joke so to be unnoticed by others around

'Why is she here?'*laughs'just kidding it wasn't an abusive joke'

to abuse a joke

To repeat the same joke until it is not funny anymore. Usually caused by people who are not that original.

Person A: Heheheh women belong to kitchen.
Person B: Bruh, you said this joke 100 times today. Stop abusing the joke!

Person A procceded to abuse a joke about women not being funny.