a place/person/school/town/group that has loads of drama that people "complain" about but in reality everyone (or most people) love it because all the crap keeps it interesting
person 1: all this shit is just gettin' annoying
person 2: nah, it's a big hot mess--you learn to love it
person 1: true---keeps life interesting
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A phrase used to describe someone who has done nothing wrong.
Phillippe to Lyle: "You're a Big hot tranny mess"
Lyle smiles.
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