A term used when a friend, family member, colleague or acquaintance is dealing with an issue (not known to the user of the term) that they themselves have the answer to or should deal with personally yet are unable to find/see such answer due to other factors bothering them (stress, anxiety, fear, fatigue etc) in their life.
Guy 1: ugh! I don't know why but I can't sleep!
Guy 2: Yo you need to chill on yourself
Elena-“Great, the first day of school and you are stoned”
Jeremy-“No i’m not, you need to chill yourself”
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•Telling someone to relax or calm down
•Telling someone to go cool off if they keep complaining about feeling too hot
•Telling someone to go freeze themselves to death
•Dude, it's not a big deal. Quit tweaking and chill yourself.
•Stop complaining about summertime. If you're really that hot just chill yourself
•I hate you. Go to the North Pole and chill yourself, dumbass.