A boyfriend that doesnโt know how to set boundaries with females , or just had too many female friends/ very popular with girls ๐(red flag)
Me: My boyfriend is spending time with so many other girls :< it hurts I never hear about his male friends.
You: sorry girl, you got a community boyfriend ๐ฉ๐๐คฏ
when your boyfriend would go out of his way to make sure he is liked by every girl on the planet as he has mommy issues and craves female validation. following whole female population of the world, going out with girls only, liking and commenting on their posts, giving them reassurance and listening to them rant are examples. he would rather hurt your feelings than theirs.
example 1: gf: are you dumb why are you following her and why are you in her likes
bf: i just like everything i see blah blah blah
gf: man sharap youre for the community
example 2: gf: why did you drive her home and let her cry to you and bought her something
bf: sorry for being a decent human being blah blah
gf: man sharap youre litch a community boyfriend