em el em is a tiktok slang meaning MLM (men or male love/loving men or male). this includes gay , pansexual , bisexual & etc. ofc it is only used to describe men not women!!
similar to wuh luh wuh (wlw; women love women).
Me: Why are you still single?
Friend: because there are no em el em’s (MLM) in the area 😞