emetamemetactilism

to fail to convey in the sense of communicating and being understood by and thereby passing on an apparently new concept to another understanding-capable one in at least, approximately, 1~9 short words or synonyms for the concept or meta-concept of the concept itself

"i'm trying to think of a shorter way to convey the meaning behind the meta meaning of the word, but here's the thing you see...emetamemetactilism is defined by the words other people speak and change, as long as it stays within a certain range"