Where unless your best friends with your ex, you can't ask them personal things about them after you break up
girl one- will you ask jimmy who he likes? Girl two- ask him yourself! Girl one- NO!!! That's against ex code
The ex code is the code for people who dated and then broke up (exes) and then tell their secrets. They can't tell the secret no matter what happens (unless they completely backstab you or something)
Girl: Can you tell me who your ex likes
Girl2: Nope , it breaks the Ex Code