A gentleman whom'st refuses to lower self-worth, status or esteme by a particular conflict with an event in life (breakup, tragedy, significant life change). This individual focuses on growth and strengthening one's self through education, healthy emotional processes and self betterment: The polar opposite of a fuckboi whom'st damages other women's hearts in order to hide inner pain and the next step in evolution of a sadboi; whom'st wears all black, premium brand-names and uses hard drugs in response to a significant event in their lives. Understands what faults and unhealthy behavior they had prior to the events that had taken place and wishes to grow from them. This indivual can balance social life and academics extremely well. This is mostly due to the individual's drive to prove one's self worth to themselves, and not to others. The epitome of a winner.
Rando 1-Wow dude! Jimmy got a 3.8 GPA this semester and won a scholorship on top of that for track!
Rando 2-Holy crap, he must be trynna show his ex how much of a stronger person he really is, even after she dumped him after he fell into a severe depression and fucked his friend the day before!
Rando 1-Nah man, he's trying to prove it to himself! Even after that depression he went through after! She'll eventually realize how bad of a mistake she made and come crying back.
Rando 2- Oh wow, he's not wearing all black anymore either! And he's stopped using sex and drugs to mask his pain too! He's finally advanced from sadboi to niceboi!
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