repulsion arc

When you have an ex situationship/relationship/crush that ends. So you no longer are blinded and finally see the red flags. But now every small thing they do gives you the ick and even if they do everything you want them to do you no longer can see yourself dating them.

Friend: I used to like him so much but now everytime he asks me to hang out with him I just don’t want to.

Me: oh lol so you’re having your repulsion arc?
Friend: I guess, yes