Food to eat for gay men to prepare for anal sex, also refers to the old wives tale that rice and cabbage increases the size of your booty.
"Bitch I eat my rice and cabbage....ass so fat he wanna grab it", or at Thanksgiving, "Girl, look at Taylor's plate, just picking at some rice and cabbage, boo's finna get it IN tonight".
Food that a black girl eats to make her butt get bigger; or soul food in general
Dang Maya, you be eatin your rice and cabbage right?.
the act of doing better, or looking good.
Yass bitch, you know your girl ate her rice and cabbage when she was at prom.