tomcat boy / tomcat boi ( alt sp): tŏm′kăt″ boi ~ noun. ||
is defined as people who identify as non-binary (but not always) that occasionally have the sexual drive and prowess of a male tomcat, but sometimes like to present themselves as feminine such as wearing dresses or maid costumes, makeup, with cat ears and tails, either as part of fantasy cosplay or to express the submissive side of their sexuality.
At Anime Expo this year I kept getting constantly hit on by tomcat boys for some reason when all I wanted to do was to get some autographs and check out the vendors in peace