Tossing the Cheese

When a man or woman gives oral sex to a man and cleans the smegma out of the foreskin at the same time.

"It was so gross, I went to give him a blowjob, but I just ended up tossing the cheese instead."

Toss the cheese

An alternative use for the phrase spill the tea. Usually used when the situation is less serious

Girl: Omg did you here about that new show?
Girl #2: Um no! Toss the cheese, gurl!!