The gray area a person is in when they have done sexual things (ex. Blowjob, handjob etc.) but nothing vaginal. They are no longer virgins,but also havn't really had sex. It is a sexual in between, or a sexual purgatory.
Guy 1: hey man is she a virgin?
Guy 2: nah she gave a guy a blowjob a few weeks ago.
Guy 1: oh so shes in virginagatory