respect

Something you'll never get from people if you're an asshole.

1) If you don't respect me, I won't respect you.

rely

Depending on someone or something with full trust and confidence.

1) You can't rely on this website. You don't even know who the author is!
2) Don't rely on her completely, she was in the same class as you the whole time.
3) Why are you fully relying on him? He doesn't respect you.