Lavender Lady

A well dressed femme lesbian or bisexual woman. Most often one who has a long term relationship with a married straight appearing bisexual woman generally with the husbands knowledge and friendship often also with his sexual participation

Dude you don't have a chance with Emma She's a Lavender Lady

Betty

A Betty in the post 1970's HOT ROD Culture is a generally young woman who dresses in a retro semi erotic style somewhat emulating Betty Page. Betty's consider themselves a sub culture. One often hears them speaking to one another in a specialized slang and its not uncommon to hear things at the Toluca Lake Bobs Big Boy such as "I felt I was the only person like me in the world till I got to Burbank and saw all the other Betty's on the street. then I knew I was home." Much as gay people described arriving in Silverlake in say 1977. Bettys tend to dress retro, wear 1940's hair styles often with bangs, usually have tattoos, and tend to date older men who own one or more Hot Rod or Custom. It is not unusual for Bettys in this context to be leather submissives or to be Bliss Babes, Cuckqueans and or cuckcakes.

"Wow! this drive in is full of 32 fords and Betty's!" "Voodo's new girlfriend is a total Betty." " Check out that 34 Victoria- dude is driving three Betty's!"