Goldilocksism

When a friend, relative, significant other, coworker or acquaintance is incapable of scheduling or confirming plans too far in advance bc they're not quite sure how they'll feel mentally, emotionally and physically that particular day, and for that particular event. Respectively, they also refuse plans conceived the day of said event, bc it's too short notice and they don't have time to prepare.

The only reasonable solution is to invite them at precisely the right time, neither too early, nor too close to the event, but just the right time. One can equate this type of conduct to the uniquely unsettling children's fable Goldilocks and the Three Bears.

So, Goldilocks breaks into the bears cottage. The unsuspecting bears (Mama, Papa and baby) have left unexplained. Although it's not discussed, obviously the bears left bc of an emergency bc the 3 bowls of porridge were still full and Papa bear's pipping hot. After legit breaking and entering the bears cottage, Ms. Locks sits down at the table and precedes to help herself to the uneaten porridge, eagerly sampling each bowl until deciding baby bears was just right, leading her to greedily scarf it down.
This unconventional outlook they have, parralleling Goldilockses' esoteric precision but not quite mirroring her inherently pretentious behavior regarding her privilege and budding audacity, explains why Goldilocksism is quickly growing in popularity.

Molly's severe Goldilocksism prevents her from being constantly invited to Gary's multiple BBQ, birthday and insignificant holiday parties he inconviently throws throughout the year.

whitenessity

When your being white, actually prevents you from being empathetic to our black brothers and sisters (or poc), and compels you to challenge them on subjects you couldn't possibly understand, bc you are not black (or poc). You feel bc you have never experienced these issues they

must

not

exist.

It's a form of denial common in white people, bc then they'd have to admit just how racist things really are. It's easier to just act like our black brothers and sisters, (or poc) don't know what tf they're talking about. 🤷✌️

The whitenessity of Kimberly and Karen, thinking that bc they've never been denied a job based solely on their name, that it doesn't happen! Try putting Jaidynce on an application! And I'm just as qualified!!