A statement used by people who are not interested in getting into a relationship with the person proposing to hook up. This statement is NOT gender specific and is just one of the polite ways of saying ânoâ. However, âletâs just be friendsâ is always taken with a grain of salt by ânice guysâ and ânice girlsâ who, after offering to still be friends, become overwhelmed with frustration after being âshut downâ.
Many people with little to no social skills will bash you for using this term as a way of rejection, but thatâs ok, because âletâs just be friendsâ can be used to help you, man or woman, root out someone who couldâve potentially been abusive, controlling, and/ or manipulative toward you. Youâd be saving yourself from getting hurt if you use âletâs just be friendsâ... or, youâd let a good friend know that you donât think itâs the best decision, and they respect you for your choice.
What happens when you use this statement-
Human 1: hey, I really like you and I think we should be more than friends?
Human 2: Iâm sorry, I donât feel the same way and I think we should just be friends. ( letâs just be friends )
Human 1: wow ok whore bitch I was just trying to be nice you didnât have to shoot me down like that have fun finding someone as good looking and nice to you as me!!
What SHOULD happen when you use this statement -
Human 1: hey, I really like you and I think we should be more than friends?
Human 2: Iâm sorry, I donât feel the same way and I think we should just be friends.
Human 1: ahh, okay, I understand.
(This is all Human 1 says, and they completely accept the rejection because they value Human 2 as a PERSON and being someone who legit CARES about them AS ANOTHER HUMAN BEING and not an OBJECT. Human 1 and Human 2 still talk to eachother and are happy being FRIENDS.)
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Everyone, please, if you really love and care about the other person, but they donât feel the same spark that you do, donât hurt them. Donât talk down to them. If you truly care, you wouldnât value their body, and instead respect their boundaries and continue being there for them. Because you love them. Because you care.
You genuinely care.
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