A total Ian

The act of encouraging other people to do something without having the courage to do it themselves.

Jonas: Throw a rock at that car!
Sander: Do it yourself.
Jonas: No.
Sander: Wow, you`re being a total Ian!

Iansyndrome

The act of encouraging people to do something without having the courage to do it theirself

Jakob: Hey Christopher throw a rock at that car!
Christopher: Do it yourself.

Jakob: No

Christopher: why? Do you have the Iansyndrome?