when a man says something to a man/gyal portraying it as a joke bc he ent confident enough to ask it for real. if they take it as a joke they act as if it was a joke the whole time, if they take it genuinely then they pretend they was serious or vice versa depending on which way advantages them.
as well as this the phrase can also be used if the opposite person knows what the phrase means
example of mandem joking:
question: âay clare youâre looking peng still you tryna fuck... hahaâ
reply1: ânah fuck offâ
response1: âhaha i was joking relaxâ
reply2: âwhen you thinking hunni?â
response2: âmy gaff at 9â
example of using the phrase:
âcum on my tits... hahaha mandem jokingâ
when you masturbate and ejaculate at a faster rate and cum on some chicken (this can be precooked or before heated) then leaving the semen to harden until you have some nicely cum glazed chicken. there are also sub-versions of this for example the chicken nugget crust or the chicken tika misala crust
âyo man i had some of dat good good chicken crust last night broâ
âay youâre on some different shit bludâ