A charming individual that makes anyone that they converse with feel that there is a deep connection because they are a good listener and make the person that they are with feel like they are the only person in the world. Whether they actually say that or not is debatable but the person in their company feels that it has been said without a doubt. The charming individual may actually be confused about what it is that they want and think that bc nothing has been said that would make them owe loyalities to any. Specific individual they don't realize that they've made that person believe that they have just based on their interaction. And the party that recently fell for the charismatic individual becalmed needy and makes the one they want, wonder what they were attracted to in the first place. Misused frequently by many to describe a unfortunate series of events and blame on a easier blameanle person in order to have someone to place blame on.
Jeremiah was constantly being high fived or hated on for being a player, but he didn't understand why, he never promised any of these girls anything more, they assumed it and then would talk shit when things didn't continue as they wanted.