oprah

Verb. A) To think about a recent experience or failure and pull the lesson/s from it. B) A process by which lesson or lessons are gleaned from an experience or failure in life. oprah, oprahs, oprahed, oprahing.

1) It was upsetting that he wasn't qualified to buy the car; but after he oprahs, he'll realize that at least now he knows what his credit score needs to be the next time he tries.
2) I urged my friend to oprah her divorce and make a list, so she can avoid making the same mistakes in the future.