Gatekeeper

A queer person, often but not necessarily a gay cis man, who attempts to exclude other groups from the general umbrella of queerness.

"I don't see why the miscellaneous queers get to march with us now"
"Because this is a celebration of solidarity with fellow queers, not your private gatekeeper's party"

"They reckon if you don't publicly transition, you're not one of us. They're a total gatekeeper."

"and then she called herself some kind of queer identity thing I have never heard of. I don't mean to be a gatekeeper but I honestly wasn't believing it was a real thing until she explained it."

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