Softboi

An abusive male behind closed doors (typically a former incel) who overcompensates by acting winsome or pseudo intellectual in public.

Karen: Aw, isn't Steve adorkable?
Me: That softboi has wokefished you too? He sent dick pics to my grandmother last week!

Bunny Boiler

Any woman who won't smile sweetly at a man who swans off lumbering her with all the responsibilities.

Eg: "She asked you to pay child support and take an interest in your kids?? Wow, what a bunny boiler!"