When someone wrongs you, and instead of flipping out or overreacting, you simply just put it into your memory and say to yourself "it's all data." This is not holding a grudge, this is remembering people's behaviors that could come back to hurt you in the future.
Bill: Hey man where were you last night!?"
Jeff: Sorry I skipped out on guy's night without saying anything, i had a female over.
Bill: Alright man. It's all data."