when you are tremendously hurt or bitter about a break-up or an ex, when you just haven't moved on yet
girl: i fucken hate Sam i cant believe he cheated on me with Zintle, I'm actually sconed i wont lie
other girl: welcome to the sconed squad!!!
Xhosa for lady or girl or girlfriend
"Ayisemhle intombi yakho" your girlfriend is beautiful
when two people have sex but without actual penetration, mainly forplay
girl: me and thabo had saturation last night,