a label for lesbians who use they/them pronouns,what is a they/them lesbian?
a they/them lesbian is a woman or a female-aligned person (or even non-aligned!)
why do they use these pronouns?
there might be two different reasons:
they're a non-binary person.
OR
they feel disconnected from their womanhood.
both of these reasons are extremely valid since lesbians (like every label/sexuality) includes nonbinary people, there are even they/them lesbians in history and those who only write it off as lesbianphobic probably have not educated themselves properly
person A : wow did you know ella is a theysbian
person B : really? thats so cool i wish them the best with their identity and label
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